Hi
I have never used a Gecko driver ( and probably never will, they are American and very expensive here) however:
Searching the net brings up all sorts of similar problems reported with Gecko 'relays'.
This is just one
http://www.cnczone.com/forums/taig_mills_lathes/85239-gecko_g540_coolant_control_relay.html
The basis of the 'problem' appears to be that it is not a relay and will not power one.
It switches a voltage to common ground rather than applying a voltage itself, so is just a trigger for a supplied voltage through the activation coil of a relay.
If your BOB has a relay to spare, could be a lot simpler using that.
regards